Dany Srey-Snow

My name is Victoria Dany Srey. Victoria felt like my “white” name. It was my American name which my mom found from the soap opera, The Young and the Restless. Only recently, have I been able to reclaim my identity through my middle name, Dany. It’s my Khmer name, which only my family members would address me by.
When I moved away to Long Beach, California in 2019, I didn’t realize it would be a powerful place for me to connect back to my ancestral roots. Long Beach is the second largest population of Khmer folx besides the country of Cambodia. It was where I got a chance to start over and explore who I really was, where no one knew me. Now, being back home in Seattle, I’ve reintroduced myself as Dany. It’s an invitation for people to really know the authentic me, just like my family. I share how it’s a reclamation practice and it’s been welcomed with openness. It’s often pronounced wrong, which is an opportunity for me to step into my voice to correct others with the right pronunciation. This experience leads me to asking others of their name pronunciation frequently until I get it right to give respect and reverence to where these names originate from.
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